Amethyst

            Bakit ang daming tao na kailangang manghusga sa iba? Bakit ba tayo nanghuhusga at kinukumpara ang ating sarili sa iba? Nagtataka ako, bilang mga tao, ay nakakaramdam tayo ng pangangailangan na humusga at pababain ang isang tao. Kaya, bakit ba tayo nanghuhusga?           Minsan tayo ay nanghuhusga sa ibang tao dahil sa kanilang anyo. Bumubuo kasi tayo ng paniniwala batay sa ating nakikita sa Social Media at mga pelikula na nag-iimpluwensya sa ating opinyon. Iniimpluwensiyahan tayo na ang mga masasamang tao, halimbawa, ang mga kontrabida ay may tiyak na katangian at ito ay nagdudulot sa mga tao na gumawa ng stereotype na kung saan ang mga magaganda ay mabubuti at mapapagkatiwalaan. Ngunit, minsan kapag ang isang tao ay nasobrahan sa pagaalaga sa kanilang kagandahan ay sinusumbat natin sila bilang peke o mababaw.               Ang isa sa pinakamahalagang paghatol na ginagawa ...

Photo by Jeanille Cogtas                      I agree to this quote when it said "I want to give light but not like the candle". It is like saying that you can give but do not give too much or you will forget leaving some for yourself.  Every one of us must know how to put limitations on some stuffs when it comes to giving. Although it may look like you are being stingy or you're unwilling to give and people might think of it negatively. But it is also important to remind ourselves that this person or people we care shouldn't be place at the center of our lives. We should also think of what they thought of us and how important are we to them because it would be disappointing to know that the level of importance that the person has on us is different from how we imagined. This is also where we apply, "Generosity and self-preservation should be allowed together". At least we wouldn't be disappointed whe...